Category: Authors
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Why Respite Care is Essential for Caregivers
A wise woman once said, “A picture is worth a thousand words.” Coordinated. Calm. Crushing it. Respite break achieved! We actually got a much-needed breather, and it feels like a deep breath for the soul. Amen? Amen! This is the caregiver life I’m so grateful for — the planning, the coordination, the hard-won moments of…
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Why Respite Care is Essential for Caregivers

Dear Reader, My mom recently indulged in some much-needed respite time! It was not nearly long enough, but she was able to hand over the care of my sister to someone she trusts (a group homeowner we have used over the years, and my sister likes) so my mom could reconnect with her own interests.…
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The Truth of Freedom: Emancipation in America

“Who the Son sets free is free indeed!” John 8:36 It’s the truth we know that sets us free. So I can only imagine how the slaves who were waiting to receive word of their constitutional freedom might have felt in the days and years following the Civil War. The expectation had to be overwhelming…
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The 28th Annual Family Café in Orlando this weekend

Good morning, Family caregivers, One of the most powerful ways to overcome caregiver isolation is by connecting with others who understand the journey. Events like the Family Café can provide opportunities to learn, share experiences, discover resources, and build meaningful connections with people who truly understand the challenges and rewards of caregiving. I recently received updated…
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I wish someone had given me this when I first became a caregiver

What I wish someone had told me about caregiving + link to the new page (Start Here for Family Caregivers)
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Doctor’s Visit Days for Caregivers

Doctor’s visit days can be exhausting, right? How about doing it for your sister who is wheelchair bound and the appointment is over an hour away! It’s no walk in the park. But it’s worth it and necessary. And because it is, we start days ahead planning for the trip: Which vehicle? Which wheelchair? If…
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Top 3 Ways to Reconnect as a Caregiver

Family caregiving can be deeply rewarding, yet it can also lead to significant social isolation. Research from leading institutions, like the National Institutes of Health (NIH) and the National Alliance for Caregiving, consistently shows that caregiver isolation increases the risk of depression, burnout, and declining health. Fortunately, long-standing evidence identifies clear, practical strategies that effectively…
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praying not to be a burden
Family Caregivers, this article (link below) stopped me cold. Right now, we pour everything into caring for our loved ones, but what happens when it’s our turn for care? My grandfather used to say, “Don’t let me be a burden to my girls.”’ Maybe you’ve heard or said something similar. What’s your hope or prayer?…
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to be understood
My reaction to Orwell’s quote: Sad. His words resonate deeply with many caregivers or those in isolation. There is certainty about their feelings, yet resolution remains out of reach. While being “understood” feels like discovering a previously hidden door, opening to unexpected joy, LOVE is still the bond, like a glue, that holds you in…
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Recognizing Caregiver Isolation: A Path to Connection

Sometimes isolation does not look dramatic. It can look like a caregiver who stops returning calls, keeps saying “I’m fine,” or slowly disappears from the people and activities that once brought comfort. If you are wondering whether you—or someone you love—may be carrying too much alone, this is a good place to begin. Take the…